The Center for Humanities & the Arts (CHA) and CU Libraries have co-hosted the event series Difficult Dialogues semi-annually since 2019. Starting in 2022, Grace Commons Church has been a partner for every Fall Difficult Dialogues event.听
Difficult Dialogue听events are听panel conversations that bring together people to discuss challenging issues from their own perspectives.听The topics chosen for each event are important, but can be difficult to discuss. This event offers a space to have these tough conversations.听We actively choose not to record Difficult Dialogues events, given the sensitive nature of topics and questions that may be asked in response to and during the event.
We are committed to fostering productive dialogues in the hope听that听minds听补苍诲 hearts might expand and that mutual respect, understanding, and perhaps self-examination can be fostered by meeting with and listening to each other respectfully. These dialogues are meant to allow us to see each other as human. If you are going to participate,听the goal is to develop the capacity of talking about hard issues with as much care for self and others as possible.
Upcoming Difficult Dialogues:
TBD
Past Difficult Dialogues:
Difficult Dialogue:听Reparations
March 20, 2024, 12:30pm - 1:45pm at CASE E390, Center for Teaching & Learning
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How do we repair harm, when the harm is on a national scale?听 For the March 2024 Difficult Dialogue topic, we will consider how various nations have provided reparations for systemic harm and how we can hold nations, governments, and communities accountable for it.听While the US government has made reparations to Japanese Americans incarcerated during World War II, there are still some groups that have not received any form of restitution, such as to enslaved people taken from African nations or to Indigenous nations for stolen land. Other countries have provided restitution for genocide, such as the German government and businesses to survivors of the Holocaust and the Rwandan government to Tutsi survivors of the 1994 genocide. Our panelists will discuss how we as individuals can encourage and support various types of reparations for harmed communities.
How to Have Difficult Conversations with Friends and Loved Ones鈥攊ncluding talking about Gaza and Israel
March 27, 2024, 6pm - 7pm at听
Difficult Dialogues: Community Conversations series (partnered with听听补苍诲 their听听蝉别谤颈别蝉)
Our third Difficult Dialogue Conversation takes up the topic of how to have difficult conversations with people you care about but may disagree with. Our facilitators, Jennifer Ho and Ami Dayan, believe it is possible to have productive conversations about controversial subjects, so long as all parties enter into the conversation with a sincere willingness to listen and learn rather than simply argue to persuade someone to their point of view. Join us听to practice having hard conversations, including on the topic of Gaza and Israel.
Frontier of Free Speech: Are There Boundaries?
February 28, 2024, 6pm - 7pm at听
Difficult Dialogues: Community Conversations series (partnered with 听补苍诲 their听 series)
For this second event in the series, we are hosting a community conversation about the First Amendment and freedom of speech. Are there boundaries to what speech can and should be shared publicly? Are there costs to free speech?听Unlike past Difficult Dialogues panel events, the Community Conversations series will be small group discussions, limited to 40 individuals.听Co-facilitators for this evening include:听Michele Moses, Professor and Vice Provost, CU Boulder 补苍诲听Patrick O鈥橰ourke, COO & adjunct law professor, CU Boulder.
Why Don't You Think Like I Do? Navigating the Space Between Us
January 31, 2024, 6pm - 7pm at听
Difficult Dialogues: Community Conversations series (partnered with 听补苍诲 their听 series)
鈥婣s we begin 2024, the CHA听补苍诲 Colorado Chautauqua are hosting a community conversation about how we form opinions, and what happens when we confront opposing views. Unlike past Difficult Dialogues panel events, the Community Conversations series will be small group discussions, limited to 40 individuals.听Co-facilitators for this evening include: Karen Ashcraft, Professor of Communication听补苍诲 Professor Jennifer Ho, CHA Director.
Difficult Dialogue:听Antisemitism and Being Jewish in the US
September 13, 2023, 7pm - 8:30pm at Grace Commons Church
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This panel discussion focused on the rise of antisemitism in the last decade 鈥� a rise that some might say has never disappeared and has resurfaced with events like the march on Charlottesville, the attack on the Tree of Life synagogue, and recent comments by celebrities. It is hard to know how to talk about antisemitism, and this difficult dialogue engaged with multiple topics as well as what it means to be Jewish today, especially in a multi-religious and multi-racial space such as Boulder county. Among the questions our panelists pondered was: 鈥淗ow does antisemitism manifest in our communities today?", "Are Jews white?", "How is antisemitism different from or similar to to other forms of racism, bias, exclusion, and discrimination?", "Is criticism of Israel antisemitic?"
Difficult Dialogue:听Abortion
March 22, 2023, 12pm - 1pm MT on Zoom (virtual)
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In 2022, we witnessed the end to fifty years of legal protections for the right to abortion care as a result of the United States Supreme Court decision in Dobbs v. Jackson Women鈥檚 Health Organization. The court concluded that the constitution does not protect a right to abortion and returned the right of states to regulate abortion. Months after the case, several states have invoked total or near-total bans on abortion, the devastating social, political, and economic impacts of which we are only beginning to understand. Millions of citizens have lost access to abortion care and those already facing discriminatory barriers are disproportionately disadvantaged by the loss of this fundamental right.听This panel featured听individuals听discussing how talking about abortion can be difficult, and how the recent overturning of Roe v. Wade makes conversation about this topic even more fraught. This was not a debate听about being pro-life or pro-choice;听this event was simply to discuss the听difficulty of talking about abortion.
Difficult Dialogue: Being Black in Boulder & "This is [Not] Who We Are" Film Screening
October 27, 2022, 5:45pm - 9pm at Grace Commons Church
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""听is a documentary film exploring the gap between Boulder's progressive self-image and the lived experiences of its Black citizens. The film braids the lived experiences of Black characters ranging in age from 12 to 78. Some stories are searing, while others are hopeful. The film seeks to open a space for dialogue among Boulderites and about cities like Boulder, overwhelmingly white, wealthy, and conflicted about issues of diversity, inclusion, and equity. After the film screening, we hosted a group of panelists听to lead a discussion about issues of race, class, and the community.听
Difficult Dialogue: Making Mistakes, Making Amends
January 25, 2022, 12:30pm听MT on Zoom (Virtual)
The Spring 2022 Difficult Dialogues saught听to address what it means to make a mistake and then to repair the harm (unintentional or intentional) that happens when we make mistakes with our friends, peers, co-workers, family, or on social media. We sometimes use an expression that may be anti-trans, ableist, racially insensitive, sexist鈥� sometimes without knowing or understanding. We may do things that cause others harm, and we don鈥檛 understand what鈥檚 happening until we get called out. So what do we do when we get called out? How do we rectify the harm and move forward? This event听featured听Patricia Gonzalez, Assistant Dean for Inclusive Practices;听Jessica Ladd-Webert, Director of the Office of Victim Assistance; 补苍诲听Elias Sacks, Director of the Program in Jewish Studies. The event was moderated by听Tyler Keyworth, Assistant Director of Restorative Justice & Conflict Resolution.
Difficult Dialogue: Saying No, Slowing Down
Fall 2021
The Fall 2021 Difficult Dialogues centered around听holding space for saying no to holding a formal event and practicing the theme of slowing down by simply acknowledging听the difficulty of telling someone that you are too exhausted to take on additional labor and to also take time to slow down and take time for oneself.
Difficult Dialogue: Power
February 10th, 2021, 12pm MT on Zoom (Virtual)
This event听examined the different ways that power impacts the lives of people at CU Boulder and the different types of power dynamics that affect us 鈥� that make it hard to advocate for various issues and that are often difficult to talk about. The听panelists for this event included听Gwendalynn Roebke, undergraduate student;听Sarah Fahmy, graduate student;听Chantal Baca, staff, 补苍诲听Erika Randall, chair and professor. The moderator was听Janet Ruppert, who was听also a graduate student.
Difficult Dialogue: Unpacking Whiteness
September 9, 2020, 12pm MT on Zoom (Virtual)
What is 鈥渨hiteness,鈥� and how do concepts like 鈥渨hite privilege鈥� and 鈥渨hite supremacy鈥� contribute to anti-Black racism and systemic racism? Where do we see whiteness on campus (what does it mean to say that CU Boulder is 鈥渟o white鈥�)? How can we engage the CU Boulder community about these issues, and how can white people address and combat white privilege and white supremacy in our classrooms, our departments, and the campus at large? Our faculty panelists (who all identify as white) discussed how they 鈥渦npack whiteness鈥� and what that phrase means to them in their efforts to be anti-racism educators and allies. This event听featured Max Boykoff from Environmental Studies, Sam Flaxman from Ecology and Evolutionary Biology, Bethy Leonardi from Education, and Phaedra Pezzullo from Communication.
Difficult Dialogue:听How to Talk 麻豆视频 Race
March 3, 2019, 12pm - 1pm at Norlin Library E260 classroom (2nd floor)
This event featured a panel of specialists who shared how they talk about race, especially focusing on how to talk about race in and out of the classroom and how to respond to issues of racism when they impact our campus community (such as the anti-black incident earlier in Fall 2018).听John-Michael Rivera听(Writing Program) moderated the听discussion with听Sam Flaxmann听(Ecology and Evolutionary Biology), Tiara Na鈥檖uti (Communication), 补苍诲听Celeste Montoya听(Women and Gender Studies).