Being a woman in today鈥檚 scientific community isn鈥檛 easy. CU Boulder鈥檚 驳谤辞耻辫听颈苍惫颈迟别诲听, Founder and CEO of Bossed Up, to teach us the tools to improve our communication skills in a sold-out event last week. Aries听is a nationally recognized speaker, writer, podcaster听and听is well-known for her TED Talk 鈥淭he Power of No.鈥�
From the moment she walked to the front of the听room, she had us captivated with her witty and confident speaking style. The first thing she addressed was the difference between assertive (taking into account others鈥� opinions and feelings) and aggressive (not taking into account others鈥� opinions and feelings) forms of communication. She fiercely led us through scenarios where these new communication tools could be put to use. We laughed and more importantly we learned how to be assertive in truly difficult situations 鈥� when your advisor asks you to stay late to process research for a conference (again), when a lab partner mentions that you 鈥渄idn鈥檛 really do much work鈥� on the collaborative project, or when someone decides that everyone in the office should listen to their music.
Aries was a fantastic teacher, and I love how she took the time to go over all the details 鈥� not only what to say, but also taking into account our posture, our tone and our vocal fillers. The workshop听left all of us in higher spirits and feeling more powerful in our communication.
Shout out to Haley Sohn, the organizing mastermind behind this event. With the help of Meredith Canode, Cami Uzcategui, Leila Saleh, Katherine Hale, Kenneth Anderson, Jona Koka, Adrienne Blevins, Nicholas Bongiardina, and听Kaitlyn Garifi, she was able to bring Aries here for such a wonderful event.
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Katelyn Long is a third-year organic chemistry PhD听student.