When Susan Ornitz , created by students at CUâs College of Music, she was floored. Her 7-month-old daughter Zoe loved it, too.Ìę
âShe was so excited. She just started squealing. It was like she knew it was written for her,â said Ornitz.Ìę
In December 2020, Ornitz agreed to participate in CUâs Colorado Lullaby Project, a program pairing student musicians with new parents to create a custom song for their little ones. Over the course of several collaboration sessions, mother and musicians used details about Zoe â her nickname, favorite stuffed animal and emerging personality â to craft a very personal song.Ìę
Months later, though Zoe has grown, the song (titled âLittle Wild Thingâ) is still special for the mother-daughter duo.Ìę
âWe still love to sing it together on our stroller walks,â Ornitz said. âI didn't think of it as something that was going to be so memorable, but itâs such a special thing to us now.âÌę
The Birth of the Project
The project began in New York City in 2011. As a part of Carnegie Hallâs community engagement programs at Jacobi Hospital in the Bronx, composer and teaching artist Tom Cabaniss was working with HIV/AIDS patients in the pediatric unit when he heard murmurs about teen moms in the OB-GYN unit having a difficult time connecting with their newborns.Ìę
âI wondered what would happen if we could help these mothers create their own lullabies for their children,â said Cabaniss. âWhat kind of bond would that forge?âÌę
Ten years later, Carnegie Hallâs Lullaby Project has a â including CU Boulder â across the globe. From Slovakia to Alaska, each iteration is unique. Some partners work with mothers in birthing centers, others in correctional facilities.Ìę
âThe diversity of lullabies themselves can be so wide, and the expressions of the project can be equally wide,â said Cabaniss. In 2017, he had been toying with the idea of finding a research partner when CUâs ReneĂ© Crown Wellness Institute and the College of Musicâs Entrepreneurship Center for Music called, asking about the project. He was thrilled.Ìę
Together, they formed the Colorado Lullaby Project. The pilot program kicked off in 2020 under the direction of Grace Law (MMusâ21), a graduate assistant with the Entrepreneurship Center for Music, with the help of Anne Fritzon (MPsychâ20; PhDâ24), a graduate student in clinical psychology.Ìę
Under the projectâs model, student musicians help parents write the music, while the Crown Institute studies the effects of lullabies on the parentsâ mental health, wellness and social connections.Ìę
Mother and Musician
Lullaby creation takes place over several sessions with the childâs mother, father or guardian and involves the creation of musical motifs, lyrics and melody.Ìę
Ornitz knew she wanted an Americana vibe in her song â an acoustic, roots-style tune that felt rustic and homey. From there, they began weaving relevant details into the lyrics. Though she doesnât identify as a âcreative person,â the team made the songwriting process accessible through various creative exercises.Ìę
For example, the team often asks parents to write a letter to their child. The personal nature of the letter helps give the artists insight into the parentsâ world and shapes the lullabyâs message.
In Zoeâs âLittle Wild Thing,â the âViking girlâ symbolizes a phase where she made little growling sounds. âMy husband called them her âViking noises,ââ said Ornitz.Ìę
The song goes on to reference various animals, a nod to Ornitzâs occupation as a veterinarian and her daughterâs beloved stuffed animal collection.Ìę
The term âlullabyâ is used broadly for the songs. âIt doesnât always have to be very calm and soothing. Some parents end up writing something upbeat to get their kids focused. Itâs flexible, and they donât have to fit in some certain box,â said Law.Ìę
This was true for Ornitz. âWe kind of decided we wanted it to be a wake-up, happy type song,â she said.Ìę
âIt's an equal collaboration, but we really try to empower the parent to create something that reflects what they want,â said Law.
Ultimately, the project is rooted in empathy â creating a lullaby with a parent is a practice of deep listening.Ìę
This gave parents something to be excited about and to look forward to. Many felt like they were strengthening the relationships with their families and their kids.âÌęÌę
Pivoting During a Pandemic
The universityâs pilot season of the Lullaby Project was scheduled to kick off during the 2020 spring semester â until COVID-19 hit.
âWe were slated to have all of our sessions in person,â said Law. âOnce the pandemic happened, our team was still determined to make it work.âÌę
They quickly reworked the model. Instead of meeting with mothers in person at birthing centers, everyone tuned in via Zoom, sometimes with team members logging in across the country.Ìę
âWe had to think about how to imitate an in-person musical experience through the internet, still have it be engaging and still have people feel like it was a really gratifying experience,â said Law.Ìę
CU was the first national or international partner to implement the project digitally. Some parents even expressed a preference for the virtual model.Ìę
âItâs much more equitable in a way that parents donât have to travel, and they donât have to find child care. They can do it from the comfort of their own home, and they feel really comfortable,â said Law.Ìę
Findings and Future
Nearly all caregivers who completed the program reported a positive experience with the Lullaby Project at CU.Ìę
Researchers from the Crown Institute found families showed improvements in social connections and decreased loneliness. The lullabies also improved symptoms of depression and anxiety. Many parents reported the lullaby had a positive impact on their relationships with children, partner or family.
âThroughout the pandemic, thereâs been a collective sense of hopelessness,â said Law. âThis gave parents something to be excited about and to look forward to. Many felt like they were strengthening the relationships with their families and their kids.âÌęÌę
âEspecially with COVID and the challenges of being a new mother, the project made me feel special,â said Ornitz.Ìę
The Colorado Lullaby Project has served over 60 families to date. Law plans to make this program available every fall and spring and have continuous enrollment for both students and parents or guardians to be engaged in the project.Ìę
âThis is going to be a long-standing program for us,â said Law. âOur plans are to really hone in how weâre doing it here and be able to spread it to other universities to reach more families.â
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Illustration by Marion Deuchars